reconciliation after divorce?

[any chance?]

"Yes, but getting a life does not mean tell your spouse whome is already hurt and confused enough, eh, it's been a peech, but I'm outta here, have a nice life! Ya know? "

This is not what I said at all. I told her that I would do anything I possibly could to help her through this difficult time. Told I would always be there for her, which is true. Let her know that I knew about the OM ("I just want to get my friend" back...yeah, when the guy has been in love with her for years). Told her I need to get my life in order, because the current situation is killing me