Originally Posted By: Ken62
She wants this D so she can be with OM and she wants me as a backup plan and to cake eat and I am basically saying that I have too much respect for myself to allow you to do that to me.


And that's where "loving detachment" comes into play. You have the right idea, it's just the way you word it has to be done just right.


Me 35/XW 33
S13 & S12
M: 10/17/98
OM & S: 07/08
D final 06/09/09
12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing"
06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10
06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11