Hey THA, I do know that others have posted in the past that if he sends you a message or text, or vm about the children dont keep him wondering. It will end up like your doing it on purpose anyway. In my sitch, i respond ( not right away) but within reason, under 30 minutes if its about the kids. Otherwise, its the principles on DB, the 180 list.
The way I look at it is if W had the kids, and I needed to find out something, how would I like not knowing ? Its about the kids. I dont put them in the middle of our sitch.. Thats my 2 cents anyway.. Keep lookin good!!!.....
M 43 W 43 S15 S 12 D 10 ILYBNILWY ( Dec 2009) Sleeping separate rooms April 8 2010. Sep as of 07/14/2010 W moving out 07/31/2010 No OM confirmed ( yet)