Although this blog concerns the Age of Entitlement, I continue to be amazed when people protest about the "unfairness" of having to work to make their lives and relationships better. Unless you are lucky enough to have a personality predisposed to happiness, it does, indeed, take work to make yourself happy. The fact that you can work to make yourself happy is empowering; waiting vainly for someone else to do it for you is the ultimate in powerlessness.
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement