It maybe a tough question but it is also a fair one to ask. I know kids see it all and it's practically imposisble to hide a loveless marriage from them. My councelor says I have abandonment issuses. My mom and dad D when I was five years old. I saw my dad maybe four times after the D in my life and one of them was at his funeral. Yes, I would do better than my dad and certainly wouldn't abandon her, but I've seen how my W was with my SS. She went out and I stayed home with him and our baby daughter.
Here's a good example of what my W is capable of doing. She's allowed her S's GF to have a "toy party" this Saturday at our house before discussing it over with me. My W is working so she won't even be around. I planned on working from home that day while D12 played outside. Now, I have to take D12 to my office at work where she's sure to be bored. Can you image how my W would behave if I wasn't around?
Maybe I didn't rock the boat enough. I thought I was suppose to look for baby steps. My W has show some baby steps but they are way too slooow. For example I once wrote that the world must be coming to an end the day my W kisses me. We kiss now but only for hello's and goodbye's.
Hopefully, our M won't be loveless too much longer. I'll leave and when I don't I won't be looking for a new wife anytime soon. My first priority is to protect my daughter. If you were to speak to my W she would say she's a model wife.
I don't mind rocking the boat. I'm going away next month for a few days. All sugesstions and comments are welcomed. I want to save this M.
