W still wants separation, need to DB more

[OfficerInNeed]

yeah, after all the posts last night/early this morning I was kind of on edge and got a little excited... That actually carried on through today.

When my W text me, I gave one word responses. Me and my W arrived home at the same time and without knowing it I was being really stern with her.

Then I had a backslide...my W walked out the bedroom heading to the bathroom as I was walking up the stairs and she had her under garments on. She hastily went into the bathroom...I laughed and let it get to me. When she came out I said "You look good in that, too bad I don't see it more often" and she said "and you wont, treat me like garbage for how long?" and we had a little more exchange of who is acting like what right now...I eventually told her "Lets start the day over, I don't want tension between us and there should not be" all she said was "that's fine, don't worry about it"

Before I take a drastic approach that others have suggested last night, I am going to follow the advice of my DB coach, since I paid for the sessions I may as well apply what I paid for...plus I DO want our marriage to work.