I guess to me, stating that you are moving on to a WAS, especially this early in the game and the circumstances that got the M to this point, you are basically saying to them "yeah I cheated on you, you weren't good enough then, and now, I don't want to do anything to prove I am worthy of continuing to be your H/W, so yeah go ahead and divorce me, you're not good enough now and worth fighting for". It's kind of a slap in the face after you've already bludgened someone to the ground.
How is stating "I'm moving on because you have chosen to sleep with OM" basically saying to them "yeah I cheated on you, you weren't good enough then, and now, I don't want to do anything to prove I am worthy of continuing to be your H"? She wants this D so she can be with OM and she wants me as a backup plan and to cake eat and I am basically saying that I have too much respect for myself to allow you to do that to me.
Me48 WAW46 M24 yrs S24 D21 D19 EA disc 6/09 2nd EA Fall 09 I move out 11/12/09 W and I switch 1/14/10 D Filed 3/17/10 W moves in with OM 6/8/10 D Final 6/21/10
