Ruined, good. I am glad and I hope the X H lies in bed at night when he finds out and wonders what you are doing with the OM. I am prety sure most of us have put ourselves through that toture and not that i wish that on others but it wouldn't be bad for them them to understand a little of what it was like.
I hope all turns out well for you. My life is turning around and 855 of the time is great. I want to get that figure up to 95% asap.
Thanks Scott
I'm not sure i want to be married to you anymore - 8-30-09 ILYBINILWY = 9-4-09 Busted her on a date 9-19-09 Separation - 9-21-09 Divorce - 10-9-09 S15 S13 S10 M - 18 Years