Also I am starting to worry (well not worry but can't find the right word) about tonight's outing...
My town is a typical midwestern small town (maybe it is small towns everywhere, who knows?) in that gossip is the fuel the city seems to run on...my parents know i am going to the party bc I asked them to babysit...ditto MIL bc she offered to have the kids Friday and I told her that my parents would have them and why--wow I share way too much info in hindsight!
Anyway Dan knows as well. However none of them know I am going with GG...the other party goers will be local people I went to HS with and their spouses...the fact that I come WITH someone will be my first public outing with a guy besides Dan...my other dates took place in Omaha and I did not run into people I know...
So anyway I am thinking it will probably go through the grapevine that BBJ was out with another man!
Should I bother giving Dan a heads-up? I had asked him for the respect to tell me if he became serious with someone, and to let me know before the kids met her. I am not bringing anyone around the kids though...