I think babies bring external motivation you know? We are forced to dig deeeeep down and find our strength to meet their needs while we are sleep deprived, sore, hungry, moody, depressed...and when they smile, laugh and snuggle us it makes it allll the worthwhile!!!!

I haven't been sick yet so I don't know how that would work-but I bet I would be able to still take care of him!

me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004