You're the controlling bad guy he is trying to get away from.
Stop trying to 'help' him, to make 'yourself' feel better...it is a losing game. And don't tell me that you aren't doing this for you, that may or may not be true.
The real truth is:
STOP TRYING TO 'HELP' HIM.
: )
Seriously...you're not. You told him once, right? But he didn't listen to you, so now you absolutely MUST make him understand you're right?
puh-leaze.
Even if he wasn't in MLC I'd say thats annoying.
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Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK