I hear you OP, there is a fine line between trying to be helpful and perceived as being controlling. I'll wait for the right moment.

The way he looked yesterday, I don't see how he can even deny to himself that he needs help. But yeah they try crazy

M53 H54 D17
M33Y T38Y
Bomb OW 09/09
OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10
WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10
Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO