Awest thank you for taking the time to write this ^^^
You made things so clear for me.... I do get it. THANK YOU!
It does make sense to be the better person and to look at how my h sees me through his eyes. Now if only ge would look to see how I see him....
I am going to stand firm with him though that I do not believe our m cannot be rebuilt....
I also have a phrase to say to him about him getting help.... "that it takes courage to take care of himself".... Courage is a big manly man word for him. He isn't ready for any of this now but maybe with time.
M 35, husband 35 M 10 Limbo 9/2009-12/2010 he left for his moms and came home way to many times to count Home 12/2010-present
