Why does this bother my WAW?

[dday101798]

This has been a topic visited twice this week with my (x)W. She gets downright hysterical when any names are mentioned of potential dating interests I had when she had done the same as your XW, ran off with OM right in front of the kids, filed on me, took everything, and yet I was just supposed to become a monk or something as part of her master plan.

Then she freaked when that plan did not come to frutition. As it was, just into our S and her A, I had told her numerous times, I'm young(er), have some smarts, promissing career, and not to toot my own horn, but not a bad looking guy and someone will want me when the day comes. And as I grew and let go expecially after the D, I had a few different options available to me. One of which I started to get really close to, and when I allowed her to be around my sons (who told me I had every right to be happy with someone else), (x)W started acting really strange, and then finally came back.

But I did ask her again point blank last night, how in the world is it sensible that she threaten women of any interest eiter way, or even dated, while she carried off with OM, and declared in the most profound way you didn't want me? Only answer I got is "because you are my husband".