Wow, that information is amazing. So amazing! I haven't checked out the link yet, but I will.
And so how would y'all rate your marriages?
For the "bad" list, I would say that we both rolled our eyes during arguments. Occasionally he would be contemptuous, but not regularly. But since "the bomb," there was definitely #2, 3, 4, and 6 from him. (I don't fully get what Flooding is, I guess.)
For the "good" list, we had #1,2,4, sometimes 5 and maybe 6. It's hard to say 6 since apparently I was not aware of so much towards the end! He didn't give as much on #6 or #3. That bids for attention is so interesting. Sometimes he'd definitely look up and listen, and other times he'd just keep reading. But then I would say "hey!" and it would work out. Sometimes I would keep reading, too, yep I was guilty of that.
So a mix.
Fascinating info, though, just fascinating. I can't wait to check out the link!
