Fixer, I'm so sorry you had so many losses. I can't even imagine the pain you were in. I'm keeping you in my prayers.
I give you so much credit that you didn't want your D to go through what you went through. My H's parents were also D'd when he was around 2yrs. old. So that's why I think they both are prodivorce.
My parents were married until the day my Dad passed away and I always thought that's the way it should be, but I know not all people think that way.
I can't thank you enough for all of the advice you have given me and hope that you still can give me more.
I got all mixed up when I asked you if I should contact my H in a few weeks and ask about the sand for the pool. See, last time I asked him something it seemed he was thrilled that he was needed. So even on my post, I wrote I won't contact him, I just might. I guess I will see.
My H for the first year was really angry also, would call just to start a fight. I have never seen him that angry as he was the day he left.
Not in any contact now for a few weeks so I have no clue to what he is like now. I know he was confused on the night we ML. I said to him "you don't know what you want do you?" and he said no.
Thanks once again for everything. I will be praying for you and your family.
