it does sound like he's not 100% clean. Mood swings and irritation about small stuff is a good sign.
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The night he left he told me to bring him divorce papers, he'd sign them because he f&^%ing hated me.
Do not do any of the legal work for him. don't even gring it up.
My W said to me 2 months ago we should seek LC. I am still waiting for to arrange to meeting. Use this time for you.
I know you want to see quick changes but for your sitch, the dust hasn't even settled yet. That may take another 3-6 months.
Just giving you a heads up on the time frame. A lot can happen in a few seconds good or bad, it's just the waiting that's the hardest part.
You will lose more weight too. I dropped 40 in my first 3 months. I was by no means "HEAVY" at 6'4" 240lbs. I did drop below 200 but now I am a steady 205.
I won't allow myself to get 240 again. Just like if given the chance, I won't let my M be in jeopardy. Hang in there take control of the things you can and don't was energy on those things you can't.
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