Originally Posted By: Number 8
So now things with court are tabled until May?

Yes and No. I asked "If this is your plan then file a Order of Reconciliation (this puts the divorce on hold)" She said "No."

Her plan as of last night is to go ahead and schedule a hearing date at the end of May. This is one reason I said that I don't think she has any intention of working on the relationship.

Originally Posted By: Number 8
Doesn't it sometimes feel like you're being baited?

I don't know . . it feels more like I am dealing with two different people sometimes. She did seem rather drunk last night which puzzled me because I didn't see her drink very much (couple glasses of wine).

She called me this afternoon and apologized for being nasty - it turns out she doesn't remember much of what was said (this is scary), or walking home, or posting stuff on facebook. She told me that she thinks her anger is a combination of the alcohol and the fact that she suddenly stopped taking her antidepressants (didn't know this 'til today).

This (the anger thing) happened last time she went off the antidepressants. If you are taking antidepressants and want to stop you are supposed to tapper of gradually.

Last edited by mrbt; 04/23/10 04:25 PM.

Me: 45 WAW: 45 | M22 | T25 | No Kids
Nov 09 W Filed | Dec 09 Separation
Mar 17 2010 Divorce Papers Signed | Divorce Hearing Cancelled
Moved back home May 2010
PA Confirmed June 2010 | W left Dec 7 2010