Hi LSG, just came across your thread and haven't read back, so I'm not in a position to give advice, but can't any 'counselling' around children happen post D? From reading your last posts I am worried she is trying to control you and also validate her poor choices. I also want to say I am sorry for the pain you - we all - are going through and I wish you the best.
Me 36; H 40 baby born in May M:13, T:15 Bomb (OW): Dec 09 began DBing: Feb WH overseas with OW old: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2027369#Post2027369
