Please listen to the vets. I know it is hard and I have the sitch to prove it. My W just turned her EA into a PA recently and I was being a lot like you. Because of her decision I let her know that I am done and have been in NC for over a week. I have not heard anything from her in that time and maybe I wont but at least I am standing up for me and not taking any of her disrespect by hanging around as the "gay boyfriend" as Puppy puts it. Sandi wrote a great piece on Respect in my thread and I suggest that you check it out.
Detaching and moving on is the hardest thing to do but your W is still in an EA and not a PA. Let her know that you mean business and be ready to let go and really stick with it. You can do this Ken!
Another Ken
Me48 WAW46 M24 yrs S24 D21 D19 EA disc 6/09 2nd EA Fall 09 I move out 11/12/09 W and I switch 1/14/10 D Filed 3/17/10 W moves in with OM 6/8/10 D Final 6/21/10
