Big conversation yesterday, and big turning point for me last night. Broke every rule in the DB book, for sure. Confronted her about the OM, told her it was her choice. Told her that she might want to rethink the D, but I am not going to stand in her way. Told her I was concerned about her mental health and well being. Told her I was sorry for my past mistakes, and told her that her mistakes were just that...in the past. Told her I was moving forward, and that we had to clear the air so that we could move forward, together or separately. Told her that I hope she manages to figure out her life and find happiness someday.

Woke up this morning in a different space. The lies about the OM broke my heart. I am moving on. Done. Time to GAL and move on with my life. Had enough.


H 51, W 46
no kids
T 22 years
M 17 years
ILBNILWY 2/10
1st D talk 6/10
partial recovery
W files D 5/11
long distance separation 8/11
moving forward on D 10/11
legal separation complete 1/2012