Actually you are on the right track I think Lola. My friends Cloud and Townsend (www.cloudtownsend.com) suggest that when you resume dating after D, you should date SEVERAL people, at the same time, to make sure you are getting out there and not just jumping into another 'relationship' in order to regain that sense of security lost in a divorce...
So keep sampling the buffet as my friends John and Kerry would say...
