I do not think that hate is the opposite of love. Indifference is. Hate and love are such strong emotions, you don't waste that much energy on someone you don't care about. Even if you think you *hate* them. And let's face it, in this world the lines between love & hate often get very blurry.

If she really didn't have feelings FOR you, she wouldn't have feelings about your dating. So yeah, her saying she hates you isn't the same as her saying she loves you...but at least she cares.

It's when she stops caring that you're done.


formerly known as "shelbel"
Me 40, stbxh 40
DSs 9, 7 & 3
M9, T10
Stbxh is a diagnosed bipolar & an addict. The end.