My husband is addicted to an emotional affair

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I know I should focus on myself and be ready to help my h when and if he decides to get help for depression. I just don't ever think he is going to get help though. He is in denial and doesn't know what will make him happy, but being married or not being married won't make him happy either. So his solution is d. Plus he has alot of guilt and said he shouldn't have looked at ow while he was married and so now he can't be m to me. Just a bunch of bs in my opinion.

I do still want to bust the a. Sorry but I do. If my h was addicted to cocaine or meth I would be trying to help him stop too. I really don't think the a is really any different. The problem is that I don't know much about this girl other than she is 24, is catholic and has lots of friends and is into sports. I've thought of talking to the pastor at her church but I don't know where her church is.... Argggg. Anyway I want to bust the a, but then I have reservations on even doing it or how to go about it.

And yes I know I need to focus on myself and not my h and the ow... But as time goes on I am getting extremly annoyed at his behavior and outright denial that he isn't doing anything wrong.