Why does it bother women (yes i know this is a generalization) to see their ex husband with another woman? My wife didn't want me, was having an affair (EA or PA) told me she didn't want me anymore, didn't want to work on the marriage, etc...and moved out. Now it seems that she is bothered by the fact that I am dating another woman and said woman occasionally spends thenight with me. BTW, I kept the house that my ex and I built 12 years ago.

I mean--let's face it I have had to deal with her dating another person--worse yet she started dating the OM while we were married.

All you amateur psychologists what's happening here? Her actions right now indicate that she could not hate me more at this point. I know she is still with the OM for a fact although 6 1/2 months after the divorce she has not gone public with their relationship.

Thanks in advance for the insight.


I'm not sure i want to be married to you anymore - 8-30-09
ILYBINILWY = 9-4-09
Busted her on a date 9-19-09
Separation - 9-21-09
Divorce - 10-9-09
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