feel like giving up - pt 2

[luvless]

OT - I don't mind answering your questions but "he wouldn't ask if he didn't care?" I'm not sure I believe that. I'm an action speaks louder than words person. His actions shows me he doesn't care.

My soon to be X husband (from day one) had ow written all over him. When he started out telling me he wasn't "happy" I knew right there he was at least talking or interested in someone....or she may have been rubbing his ego. He would have never said anything like to me if there wasn't. He is a loser and needs someone else. He doesn't have the balls to leave and be on his own to work his problems out. He hates to be by himself.

Facts? I don't want to be specific here but I have them. He is seen with ow outside of work...always coming home late..hiding expenses..locking phone...all classic signs. Recently this new ow well..he was at her house till 4am - no good can come out of that. PLUS I smell it all over him. He can't look at me..is so distant. He still wants sex sometimes but only when he's been drinking because he can't sober.

He is definately in a MLC if you look back I mentioned that. His mom died in 06 and it really affected him. She abandoned him at 10 and he wasn't close to her but it's made him deal with issues he can't handle but NO excuses for ruining our family and our marriage.

OT - he said he was done and has not shown me he cares about my feelings so I will divorce him and give him what he wants...happiness.

Thank you for your input.

Luv