still separated, in limbo, still hopeful

[newmama]

Of course this has nothing to do with infidelity lol! But he has studied 1000s of marriages and that is where these predictors come from.

It is frustrating for me to look at the 7 predictors of divorce and honestly, WH and I did not have ANY of those factors.

On the predictors for marital happiness, obviously we didn't have #6 down!!! But the first 5. So it is frustrating that WH is throwing away a good marriage with potential to improve #6.