Dazed and Confused...Need Advice!!!!

[gr8 day 2B alive]

smm23,
Has your W left yet or telling you she's looking for a place?

If she says that she's needs time and space say something like this:
"I couldn't agree more with you. I think we BOTH need some time and space to work on ourselves"

AS for MC.
My W and I tried to go twice both since my W feelings were to escape and not repair, it didn't work.

I think once the WAW gets to this point of leaving MC will not be beneficial. Don't worry about MC right now.

Concentrate on you and S4. Tell him you love him and also tell him your W loves him too and that you will always be there for him.
This will help him.