wow 4 weeks will feel like forever due to the anticipation I bet! It did for me!
I don't see H as "mine" but he is not "hers" either- he is an alien! lol!
I was bothered by OW spending time with S. But it is only one overnight session per week. An advantage of me letting H still come over here to S (among other things) is that it is less time OW gets to be with him. And I bet it pisses OW off that I am here too! haha!
I don't think OW will hurt S or anything so I just am annoyed that she sees him, not scared or threatened.
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004