This sounds so hard, hvL. You are incredibly strong to be able to handle all this while in the same house--even though you are having a tough time, you are doing it.
Tell us more about the theatre--you asked me about it in the alt, but I never got a chance to reply.
Being in a play can be so much fun, so much group energy--and being ALLOWED to not be yourself for at least 2 hours--does it help? Can you come home buoyed up by all the theatre energy--and keep that with you as you walk through the door? I do hope it is a Neil Simon comedy you are working on, not some dreary Chekov thing!
Not eating--yes, we have all been there. I forced down lots of supplement drinks in the early days--got some calories, vites, and calcium in, so I didn't have to add scurvy, osteoperosis, and rickets to the rest of my problems! Have you tried some of those? even just enriched, vanilla soymilk is good, and easy on the digestion.
