No doubt she is going through withdrawal. I see that she searches OM's, OMW's and OM's relatives names on FB almost daily. His account is still deactivated. Bizarre right now. She'll be nice for hours and then go off, then nice and apologizes, then blow up, repeat...
I sent a basic msg (...is there something I should know?) to OMW yesterday. Haven't heard back yet.
NOGO on being mutually transparent. I tried that months ago. She won't agree. I heard a bunch of "I need to be independent" type stuff.