It's simply...complicated. Stalker or BF#7?

[lalxx]

I have a really good friend who left her husband 5 years ago - noone else was involved - she was given the advice that it'll take 3 years to move to a safe place to even consider putting yourself into a new relationhsip healthily - at the time she thought "What???? 3 years - that's waaaay toooo looong"

She is getting married today to a guy she met 3 and a half years ago she told me she worked on her and her self for most of the 3 years before sh met her man.

I am not saying that you shouldn't entertain the idea of ladies in your life all I am counselling is to think really long and hard and understand your motivation - your marriage was hard enough when there was 3 people in it ..........adding more just seems to complicate things further and may close doors to what you really wanted in the future.....

I am bruised and battered by the events of the last 18 months with my husband and know that, emotionally, I am still vulnerable so I choose to work on me and trust that when I am ready for a healthy relationship I will spot it and be able to move forward with no regrets.

lalxx