tired of trying...

[gr8 day 2B alive]

shelbel.

I read your your sitch from page 1.
From what you wrote and from my experience this is IMO- Husbands(men) want to be able to provide for their families. It give them a sense of worth. For me, I know since before I was married I was always worrying about how am I going to afford a home for/with my W? Stressing about it made me have anxiety. I did see a doctor about it way back then but they just said it was because of a life change.
Then 4 months after I was married I was layed off. More stress.

Then after finding a less paying job, W talked about having kids. More stress.

I can keep going about my life changes and how it stressed me out but I don't have all day.

My point is our H maybe having those feelings too.
Being out of work and not contributing to the family has taken a toll on him. He feels inadequate and that is leading to anger.


I know that anxiety can lead into depression(My Case).

I handled it the wrong way too but now see solutions.

When your husband gets anger, has he been drinking?

What exactly is the reason he said to you he wanted out?

Remember this is going to be a marahon not a sprint, and your just getting out of the gates.

I'll tune in later on my lunch break.
Stay strong Gr8