My story is the same as most after almost 20yrs of marriage my husband is most likely having an affair with the neighbor (my best friend). He stopped talking to me for a few weeks then said our marriage was bad for a long time. He spent lots of time with the ow saying they were just friends. I witnessed many inappropriate behaviors and asked him to break off the relationship. He refused, she texted mean things about me to my children he still wouldn't break it off. I asked him to leave the house because he was angry and silent it was destroying the kids. He refused to help financially so I was forced to file for the big D. My kids are crushed and won't speak to him and of course thats my fault. I just cant believe it I'm so crushed and he wont speak a word. Alone and wondering what to do next.
