really timehealsall, how should I bust the affair? I really have contemplated it. I did in the past try to call the ow. Well she freaked and said I was harrassing her and wouldn't talk to my h. He came home for one month and then left again now for almost 8 weeks. Sooo, how would I bust the affair? Should I contact her and let her know that she is dating a married man? Should I tell my husband to prove to me with his phone records that he isn't communicating and having an affair with her? At this point I almost don't care if it pisses him off.
This post is the exact opposite of my last post. Hahaha I change my mind constantly. should I have friends who are pro marriage call and leave a message about her morals of dating a married man?
That is not the way to bust the affair. What I meant is exposing him to everyone and finding more info about this OW. Gather intel. Is she married? bf? that type of thing.
Calling you and leaving her messages is going to make her the victim and make him resent YOU more.
M: 32 H: 34 S:5 D: 3 D: 1 Together 11 years Married 7 Bomb: PA/EA 8/13/09 (for 1 year on and off) ILYBINILWY: 08/09
"The end of suffering happens with the end of wanting." -Laura Munson
