You're still married. No matter how bad she treats you....what she says or does, nothing changes that fact at the moment. This one is all about you. What does that mean to you?
I can only speak for me, there is no way I could be involved with someone while still being married regardless of all the crap that's going on. It would have to end first.
Can you honestly say that you are ready to be involved in another relationship? It sounds to me like you're still smack dab in the middle of all this so to speak. It takes quite a bit of time to heal and get yourself right after all of this.
Keep in mind, and also ask yourself. "How well do I REALLY know these other women?" "Are my glasses a tad bit rosie when it comes to them?"
Just a few of many important questions you need to be asking yourself.
