Yeah, I'm bummed about the MC. I let him pick the person because I wanted him to be involved in the process and it not being all me. He asked his IC and got the rec for this lady. When I got her name and looked online, it seemed good because they had this system to evaluate couples and determine their chance of success. I was so sure we'd pass that system test!

I don't think she gave it to us, but that she just kind of went off the top of her head when she said "some marriages aren't meant to be." I was sitting waiting for her to say that some are, and she didn't! She did say to him, though, that it's obvious he's running from responsibility.

Well, we'll see what happens. For now, I do feel better knowing I have his parents support. For some reason it means a lot to me-- maybe because I kind of adopted myself into their family!