Originally Posted By: nicole8
There really is nothing more for me to do except be his friend and be there for him. Which he seems pretty uninterested in. He really is living a fantasy life in highschool. So sad


You sound like a good person, but if thinking about all of this stuff is making you sad, then maybe you should do some things that make you feel better and not contemplate what he is doing so much. Detach yourself from any outcome. What happens will happen, and what he does or doesn't do isn't about you, so choose to see the good things in your life aside from your relationship and appreciate those, and take care of yourself.


Excercise, household chores, playing with my dogs, and doing a good job at work keep me centered and happy. For you, it might be something different, but try to stay focused on taking care of yourelf unless he decides to reach out, and then if that happens take a genuine interest in him, but don't make yourself unhappy because what he is doing is making him unhappy.


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