Thanks WhatNow, for giving me sort of a plan that I can follow.
I was so afraid you would jump on that.....and sure enough you did. I did not see it as being sarcastic and I did not think you would either. It was as if it was giving you "permission" to be a weak sissy who just looks the other way while his wife and OM screw around. Have you forgotten how he would come into your home to pursue your W?
Ken, at this stage of the stitch, that option is sure to fail. The reason is b/c of the horrible disrespect your W has thrown in your face. If you chose this option "now" then how do you think she could ever respect you again? The respect is the critical issue right now. All you are thinking about is the OM, but the respect needs to come first and I don't see that happening with option 1......not after all this time. She would laugh at you for trying to put those traits into place. She would see it as you being weak. Beside, I gave you examplesof option 1 at thebeginning of your other thread, but that didn't pan out too well.
This womanneeds to see a strong leader in you.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
