I'm sorry, Gardener. The greed and need for control never cease to amaze me with these things. I'd suggest burying a statue of St. Joseph to speed the sale of your house so this can all be behind you. Couldn't hurt!
M60 H52 D20 M14 yrs OW-old gf from 1986 bomb-5/18/08 H filed for D-9/10/08 D final 4/24/09 xH remarried (not OW) 2012