Your "attacking" him reminds me of Lanzo and his "South of the Border" maneuvers where he would act based on certain signs that the Border Patrol was on high alert, open for business (no underwear on) or sleeping on the job. In your case the "womaneuver". IKYWIM - this acronym is Greek to me. At any rate looks like H is finally speaking your LL; you seem to have won against the OW at least for now; more patience seems to be your weapon of choice these days.