So glad to come to your thread and read good things. I mean I know you are angry and that there are still unanswered questions...but you are talking! Actually talking, and having conversations, and having sex....I will try not to hate you for having all the sex...
And I hope you do take a spa trip with your H. I always wanted to go have a couple's massage...
Well, last night I laid down to rest and I was going to get up and write that note but I fell asleep... I dont even know what time he got in. But I did snuggled up on him this morning. Didnt get a response from him...
Your "attacking" him reminds me of Lanzo and his "South of the Border" maneuvers where he would act based on certain signs that the Border Patrol was on high alert, open for business (no underwear on) or sleeping on the job. In your case the "womaneuver". IKYWIM - this acronym is Greek to me. At any rate looks like H is finally speaking your LL; you seem to have won against the OW at least for now; more patience seems to be your weapon of choice these days.
My name was mentioned so I feel compelled to respond.
Originally Posted By: fb2
Your "attacking" him reminds me of Lanzo and his "South of the Border maneuvers".
I remember this period well, and the one thing it has taught me was that if your partner doesn’t want to play IYKWIM(If you know what I mean), then it normally means that they have an alternative or a distraction in the background, and it’s something we shouldn’t ignore or gloss over. Thankfully for K, Mr K seems to have rid himself of these distractions. I sincerely hope it stays that way and things continue to progress in the right direction.
Lanzo
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Originally Posted By: Bobbijo
and having sex....I will try not to hate you for having all the sex...
Hi guys and girls, tonight is the final game for the Cup in Greece. Busy week for H ending tonight.I wanted to go, he had arranged a pass for me but I dont have anyone to babysit. I wanted to go because I have never been and it feels like I should try to be part of his life as well. But.... it cant work out. Hopefully, she wont be there. Hopefully, if she is, he will tell me.
I sent him an email telling him now that you will be less busy lets conectrate on us and have fun with each other. He replied, Of course, I am in 1000%
He is tender and joking and flirting. I am too.
I returned 2 out of my 4 CC and paif off the other 2. I also paid off 4000 aout of 4900 euros credit loan" I took when he left and feeling prrrrrety good about myself. I even bought myself a Breil watch.
fb2, I am not attacking someone who doenst want me (!!!!), he is in for it maybe more than I am. Which makes me feel loved. K