Yeah I don't really care his reasons either. If someone matters to you then it doesn't matter how busy you are--a little pearl of wisdom from "He's Just Not That Into You".
And as you all already noticed from basically week one, I was not that into him either. I think I was into the fact that he is/was "safe"...meaning I have known him from HS. Honestly in High School he would have been the equivalent of 'gay male friend' without the gay part...I never thought of him as a sexual being, he was just that guy in our speech team who was funny... The fact that he seemed so interested in me a few weeks ago was a PMA booster so I went with it.
I just had a brief text exchange with Dan. I wasn't even thinking about it when I asked my mom/dad to keep the kids overnight while I go to my birthday party/date event... However it is in the decree that we give each other ROFR for overnights.
So, he texts me at all of 1 a.m.-- "So I am wondering why you asked your parents to keep the kids instead of me"
Truth be told he has a right to wonder. But I was just honest, "Sorry, you are right I probably should have. I just know that you tend to do cattle or house projects when you don't have the kids. And honestly the past year you haven't been able to keep them overnight so I got used to asking my parents. I can either change tomorrow's plan or just ask you first in the future, which do you prefer?"
Cause hey it is stipulated, so I get it. He replies, "In the future" so, there it is.
I didn't say anything bc I do not want to be petty nor vindictive, but what about all the times he has shown up here unannounced (or even sometimes announced but without asking, just telling) when it is not 'his day' just to say hi to the kids, or to play with Nathan, or whatever.
What about the fact that this year is 'my' year to have Sydney on her birthday next Saturday (5/1), but it falls on 'his' weekend with the kids. So he already planned a family party on Saturday and said I could spend time with her Friday or Sunday?
Yeah there are a hell of a lot of things I 'wonder about' too, Dan.........
