Need a Plan for My Marriage

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Hi DaddyLongShanks,

I am not sure what to do at this point.

She did not wear her wedding ring today. I noticed that this morning. I did not say anything. There is not much to say.

Tonight we went to McDonalds with the kids and to Blockbuster for a movie after I picked her up.

At Blockbuster, she mentioned she wanted to go back to counseling. I asked why? She did not really say, so I just left it alone.

At McDonalds, we talked a little while the kids played in the Playplace. She mentioned counseling again. Again, I asked why? She said when we D we need to be able to communicate better for the kids. She told me that from the beginning of this that she wanted a D, and she said "obviously you don't. She said we could go together or do 2 and 2 of the remaining 4 sessions we have left. I told her I will think about it.

I was so angry inside that she mentioned that we needed counseling to learn to communicate better while she is the one having an A. I did keep my cool even though I had a sick feeling in my stomach. I really don't know what to do. I am trying not believe anything she says, but it did hurt to the core of me.

I do try to communicate with her to have her be negative and not listen. I just find it terrible that she is the one with the communication problems, and she wants me to get counseling. I did want to say more, but I did not want to start an argument, so I politely got up to have another refill.

She found my handwritten journal, but she did not have time to read it, and the kids said mommy has your book. I said okay and did not say anymore. It only tells about what happens with her during the day, nothing more. I write the really "juicy stuff" here. She was looking at some adultery books I left (intentionally)on the table from the library.

Anyways, I just want her to go to sleep tonight, so I have my time to relax my mind and calm my stomach a little.

My sitch seems to progressing in the opposite direction than I had hope.

I still do have hope, but it becomes more difficult everyday.