Oh Piano, sorry- I was not saying you were giving up!! I was prefacing my statement about preparing for the worst with that phrase because I didn't mean to sound like "you are doomed." you know? When is your due date again?
Oh i didn't take it that way, Newmama :-) Yes, preparing for the worst is the only option ..devastating as it is. Due in 4 weeks...
How do you cope with seeing your H? Do you still see him as "yours", so to speak, even if he is with OW?
And how are you feeling about OW spending time with your child?
