Do you still communicate to your wife that you want the marriage to work?
If so, you haven't changed, regardless of what you just said.
No, I don't.
Also I got something good for you....
My W woke up to get ready for work and asked "Did you get any bread?" and I said "Yes" she failed to say anything in response so I said "YOUR WELCOME!!" and she said "geez"
LOL
I know females who do that. Its a high level of avoidance, at least with you. If you can tighten up your game in this presense, it will be able to stand a ton of negative attention and maintain yourself.