Sounds like you didn't detach enough yet.

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Every time I get anywhere close to her she finds a way to hurt me.

You believe that she is in MLC right? Then don't take it personally. She is fighting her own demons and projects onto you. I know that MLC is not an illness, but it helped me to think of my H that way. It somehow helped me to deal with all of the crap he was trowing my way. And it helped me to forgive him and not to be angry with him. Then I was able to be his "friend".

Not easy, but possible.


M53 H54 D17
M33Y T38Y
Bomb OW 09/09
OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10
WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10
Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO