I"m sorry to hear about your cat - it's a hard grieving process isn't it? I had to cry it out for weeks just to get by. yOu will.
As for the hernia, this must be bringing up so much stuff for you since you were abandoned after the c-section. I'm so sorry to hear this happened to you I can hardly believe it and I'm so impressed your H has come around now.
I hope he makes up for it this time around - if not, you know you can survive! Glad to see you popping back in on the boards.
