Oh Piano, sorry- I was not saying you were giving up!! I was prefacing my statement about preparing for the worst with that phrase because I didn't mean to sound like "you are doomed." you know?

When is your due date again?

me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004