so if your wife is not having a physical affair with the OM, she could still be contacting him by phone, txt msg, email, and when she's not at work, as much as you have your friends and family monitoring her, they aren't watching her 24/7, they have lives too.
True BUT OMW has access to his logs and monitors such activity. It's all in the other thread...
M: 27, W: 25 Together since: 01/31/00 M: 10/4/09 (8 Months) ILBNILWY: 01/24/10 EA confirmed: 02/10/10 (Busted). Road to Reconcile began: 07/10/10 Retrouvaille: 09/10/10